The Ex-Files: Can I claim compensation for the post-separation care of our children?
Question: My partner and I separated two years ago after a 15-year de facto relationship. We have three children together, aged 4, 6 and 9. We are yet to finalise the division of our relationship property. For the last three years, my former partner has had irregular contact, sometimes going weeks without seeing the children, and when he does, it is only a night at a time. He is paying minimal child support. Can I seek compensation for my post-separation care of our children?
Answer: If you are shouldering the lion’s share of childcare responsibilities after separation while your former partner provides minimal support, you may be entitled to compensation as part of your relationship property division under the Property (Relationships) Act 1976. To read about the legal framework surrounding these situations, how the courts approach these cases and some of the practical considerations, click through to the NZ Herald Ex-Files article.





